Okay, want a little advice on what you should do in the situations below? Well, just read what I wrote, you can choose to make up your own question and email it to me, and i'll give you personal advice without displaying it on the internet, or you can choose to let the world know what your question is, and the answer. The answer might help other people that have the same problem as you. If you don't want me to display your name, but you want to send in a letter, then just put do not display my name, on the note, or if you choose, you do not have to put your name at all, but I'd kinda like to know who I'm giving advice to. Well, just read the questions and answers below, if you have any other questions then email me, my email's at the bottom of the page. Enjoy.
"I want to go out with this guy, but I don't know if he likes me, how do I know if he likes me or not?"
"You can either ask him yourself, which may be kinda hard, or you can tell by body language. If he looks at you a lot, and talks to you a lot, then there might be a chance. If you think there might be a chance that he likes you, then tell him how you feel, you won't be a total dork if you tell him, but if you don't then he'll get another girl, and you'll be crushed. I think you should try to let him know that you like him, and that you want to go out with him, but don't make it too obvisious, don't hang on him everyday, and don't laugh at jokes that aren't funny, or he'll know he's got you wrapped around his finger, and that isn't a good thing. If he doesn't like you, and you want to go out with him, then I think you should keep on liking him, who cares if he doesn't like you, if you like him, and keep acting normal, then maybe some time later, he might start to like you back."
"I went out with this girl, and I want to go out with her again, but I don't know if she had a good time, and I don't know if she want's to go out with me again. How should I ask her, and how do I know if she want's to go out with me again?
"Well, if she looks interrested in you, such as, talks to you a lot during class or at other times, calls you up and talks about the date, or writes you little notes, then she likes you, girls are complicated, if you fall for them too hard, then girls think that they have you all for themselves. Some girls miss use the power of having a guy liking her, they say that they like the guy, but they really don't, they sometimes only date the guy because he's popular, or a lot of other girls want to go out with him. If you're not sure if the girl likes you, then I wouldn't worry about it, I'd just ask her to a movie again, ask her what time's good for her, and where she want's to go. If she says that she can't all week, then she's not interrested in going out with you, if she says that she wants to go out with you, then she likes you, and wants to be your girl."
"It's not working out with my boyfriend, he's too clingy, and I can't stand it anymore. I want to break up with him, but I'm afraid that it will hurt him too much, what should I do?"
"Well, if you think there might be a way to give him a second chance, then tell him that you think he's too clingy. If you really don't think it's going to work out, then just say, "I don't think it's working out between us. I think that it's best to break up, I'm sorry, but I just don't think it's working out. Maybe if no one else works out for me, I'll start going out with you, but I just need to see other people." Sometimes he might start to cry, if this happens, just give him a kiss on the cheek, then walk away. If you stay, then he'll make you feel even guiltier. If he says okay then. Then smile and walk away. If you don't walk away, then it will make the situation worse than it is, and it will make you or him feel terrible, which is not a good thing."
"I have just been fired from my job, and my wife is at home, and I don't know how to tell her that I have just been fired. How should I tell her this, should I tell her this?"
"I think it is best to not keep secrets from your mate, no matter how bad it gets. If your mate is very upset about you getting fired, it's normal. You should tell her that you got fired, and that you are looking for a new job, and that she need not worry about it. Just drive home, and walk in, don't tell her at first, like the minute you get through the door, tell her after dinner, or while you're at the dinner table. She won't get as mad as you think, and she may even be happy that you told her the truth. All in all, tell her that you've been fired, and that everything will be alright, and you'll be okay."
"I wrecked my boyfriend's car, but I don't know how to tell him. He'll probably be really upset, but I don't have the money to fix it. What should I do?"
"Well, as I said before, you should never keep secrets from your mate, or boyfriend in your case. I think that you should just tell him that you wrecked his car, in a casual manner. Work out an agreement about the money, say you'll pay him back in small amounts till you have paid off the bill. If you tell him you'll pay him back, then he can't get that upset. I know it'll be hard to pay him back, but that's the right thing to do. If you don't say you'll pay him back, and you just break up with him, then he'll find out that something happened to his car, and he'll take you to court. I wouldn't like to go to court, because sometimes the judge isn't as fair with the agreement and tells you to pay it all back right away. I sugessed that you take up a job, just till you pay the money back for your boyfriend's car."
"All the kids are picking on me at school. They say that I'm ugly because I have braces. How do I avoid this trouble at school?"
"Well, when they say that you're ugly, I wouldn't fight back. I'd walk away, then, after a while, they'll stop, seeing that it is not getting to you. It doesn't matter what they think of you, it just matters what you think of yourself. Just think that you are cool, and that you are not ugly, and pretty soon the kids will feel the same. Sometimes talking to an adult works, or even going into a chat room. This is a common problem, since this world is based on glamor. If you have braces, just say that you're teeth are going to be perfect because of them, and don't put them down, or that will start a fight between you, and all of the kids that are picking on you. When people pick on other people, it's really because they have issues about themselves that they really don't like, or are insecure about. So, avoid this trouble by not talking back, and by being passive toward the other students, and you won't get in trouble, remember, what goes around comes around."
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